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1980s 1990s Carer Health and Medicine Marfan Medical

Trenna’s Heart Valve Replacement – Part 1

By Greg

I thought some readers of this site may find this story interesting. In it I tell you about Trenna’s surgery to have her aortic heart valve and ascending aorta replaced. I intended it to be a stand alone story, but it turns out the memories of those times are still pretty clear in my mind, and a lot happened, so, here is Part 1 of what has turned out to be a two part story of medical success … Read the rest ... “Trenna’s Heart Valve Replacement – Part 1”

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All Photos Published on the TrennaMahney.com Website

Photos played a very big part in Trenna’s life, especially in later years as her mobility decreased. She spent hundreds of hours sorting, scanning, dating and captioning photos stretching back to her very earliest days.

I therefore take quite a bit of time and care in choosing the photos I use on the site.

Below is a gallery of all the photos I have used so far. I have also created a page that displays all those photos. You should … Read the rest ... “All Photos Published on the TrennaMahney.com Website”

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1980s Love and Marriage Marfan

Engagement and Wedding

By Greg

My four-part series on The Earliest Days of Trenna AND Greg received a lot of positive feedback, so I thought I would follow it up with the tale of how we got engaged and then married. Well, actually it didn’t really get much feedback, but I liked it, so wanted to tell the rest of the story.

You can also read a little about it in the post The Newlywed Diary.

There are tales to tell in … Read the rest ... “Engagement and Wedding”

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1980s Music Snippets and Vignettes

Eric Bogle and Slim Dusty – Two Concerts We Remembered

By Greg

Slim

We were always going to feel a little uncomfortable in this environment. But I felt it was something we had to do – and Trenna was prepared to go along to prove that I was wrong!

It was a Slim Dusty concert at the Perth Concert Hall.

I cast my mind back to our house a month or two earlier.

“Hey, Tren. Slim Dusty is doing a concert at the Concert Hall”.

“So?” Those two letters were … Read the rest ... “Eric Bogle and Slim Dusty – Two Concerts We Remembered”

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1980s Heart and Lung Failure iPad Knowledge Love and Marriage Marfan Snippets and Vignettes

1989

Trenna’s Diary Summaries From Her iPad (with photos)

Intro and extra clarifications by Greg, the rest by Tren

As I’ve said previously … In Trenna’s iPad she has written summaries of each year. As you will see from what she has written she has gleaned the information retrospectively from a wide range of sources.
As I reproduce them on this site I’ll take the opportunity to clarify and expand on some of the stories. Trenna wrote these summaries (and there Read the rest ... “1989”

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Tales From Trenna’s Kitchen

By Greg

This post has a connection to the Menu Diaries series.  If you aren’t familiar with the series, a good place to start would be HERE.
Some of the items and practices I discuss here are mentioned in the series of posts in which I explain some of the mechanisms Trenna used to cope with her Marfan’s Syndrome. That series starts here.

Introduction

As I have explained a few times, meals and their preparation were central to Trenna’s … Read the rest ... “Tales From Trenna’s Kitchen”

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1988

Trenna’s Diary Summaries From Her iPad

Introduction

In Trenna’s iPad she has written summaries of each year. As you will see from what she has written she has gleaned the information retrospectively from a wide range of sources.

As I reproduce them on this site I’ll take the opportunity to clarify and expand on some of the stories. Trenna wrote these summaries (and there are many of them) to help her and I recall our many experiences. It was probably … Read the rest ... “1988”

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1980s The USA Travel Diaries Travel Writing

The USA Trip Diary – Part 9

Diary Entries From 2 April to 6 April 1982 – The End of The Trip

The USA Travel Diary series starts HERE.

Friday 2nd April

Place: San Francisco

Weather: cloudy and sprinkling

Got up at 6 am can you believe that! Caught the bus to San Francisco downtown. We had to get to Fisherman’s Wharf which became quite involved. It took us three buses to finally get to Pier 39. 

We bought our tickets for Alcatraz Island. It was … Read the rest ... “The USA Trip Diary – Part 9”

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1980s The USA Travel Diaries Travel Writing

The USA Trip Diary – Part 8

Diary Entries From 12 March to 1 April 1982

The USA Travel Diary series starts HERE.

Friday 12th March

Got packed for Las Vegas. We went to The Suburban Mr and Mrs Wijnhamer, Jim, Tony, Toni and me. It took us about five hours to get there. When we arrived we couldn’t believe our eyes, the entire place was a mass of beautiful lights it looked like one big gigantic carnival.

We booked into our motel at about 11 … Read the rest ... “The USA Trip Diary – Part 8”

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1980s iPad Knowledge Snippets and Vignettes Writing

Trenna’s Rough Notes on the 1980s Before Greg

Notes by Trenna, Intro and Extra Information and Stories by Greg

Introduction

This is another in the “Rough Notes” series. It is a term I made up for this website and describes several documents on Trenna’s iPad where she has accumulated information to help in her effort to tell her story.

This one is just a list of some landmark events from the 1980s. I have used them as a prompt and have added a number of stories and … Read the rest ... “Trenna’s Rough Notes on the 1980s Before Greg”

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1980s The USA Travel Diaries Travel Writing

The USA Trip Diary – Part 7

Diary Entries From 17 February to 10 March 1982

The USA Travel Diary series starts HERE.

Wednesday 17th of February

Caught a cab into downtown Dallas. We saw the Ewing Boulevard but not any Cowboys. Dallas is definitely not as glamorous as it is made out to be on telly.

Date: 18/2/82–21 –/2/82

Place: Dallas – Los Angeles

Weather: 70° F – 86° F and humid

Thursday 18th February

We took a tour to Southfork Ranch. Which was … Read the rest ... “The USA Trip Diary – Part 7”

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1980s The USA Travel Diaries Travel Writing

The USA Trip Diary – Part 6

Diary Entries From 25 December to 16 February 1982

The USA Travel Diary series starts HERE.

Date: 2/2/82

Place: Chicago

Weather: too bloody ridiculous for words

Note from Greg in 2023: For context, from what I recall from what Trenna told me the background to the Chicago visit was as follows. 
Toni had met a nice, attractive sailor, Wayne, when he was on shore leave in Perth.  They went to Chicago to catch up with him. 
However it turns Read the rest ... “The USA Trip Diary – Part 6”

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The USA Trip Diary – Part 5

Diary Entries From 25 December to 1 February 1982

The USA Travel Diary series starts HERE.

Date: 25/12/81 – 30/12/81

Place: New York

Weather: cloudy and cool

Friday 25th December, Christmas Day.

Unfortunately not a white Christmas but certainly a different Christmas from Perth. My presents included three jumpers, one pair of slippers, one bag, powder and a ticket to the Broadway show The Best Little Whorehouse in Texas.

My Chrissy meal was totally different, too.  A typical “ding” … Read the rest ... “The USA Trip Diary – Part 5”

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1980s The USA Travel Diaries Travel Writing

The USA Trip Diary – Part 4

The USA Travel Diary series starts HERE.

Diary Entries From 26 November to 14 December 1981

Date: 26/11/81–2/12/81

Place: New York and Boston

Weather: New York not bad. Boston cold.

Thursday 26th November. Thanksgiving

Everything is closed as it’s a public holiday. Bart drove us to Brooklyn Heights where we had a lovely view of New York at night.

Saturday 28th November 

Caught the bus to Boston. Stayed the night at the Ramada Inn.

Sunday 29th

Read the rest ... “The USA Trip Diary – Part 4”
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The USA Trip Diary – Part 3

The USA Travel Diary series starts HERE.

The Day by Day Descriptions Start…

Diary Entries From 22 October to 15 November 1981

22 – 25 October 1981 New York

Weather:  fine and warm

We arrived in New York 22nd October. We caught a taxi from Kennedy Airport to Toni’s aunt’s place which cost us 30 bucks. Toni’s aunt is very nice. She [Toni] also has three cousins Bart 22, Antoinette 18 and James 12.

We slept two doors … Read the rest ... “The USA Trip Diary – Part 3”

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1980s The USA Travel Diaries Travel Writing

The USA Trip Diary – Part 2

The Diary Commences

By Trenna

The USA Travel Diary series starts HERE.

[GM:  Just so you know. In this series Trenna does mention spending the night with a man … a few times.  Nothing explicit is mentioned.]

[GM: at the start of the “My Trip” diary that Trenna was using it had a section for “En Route”.  These are the entries written there.]

En Route/Going There

20/10/81

Left Perth Airport at approximately 12 midnight, about six hours late. First … Read the rest ... “The USA Trip Diary – Part 2”

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1980s The USA Travel Diaries Travel Writing

The USA Trip Diary – Part 1

How it Happened

This bit by Greg. The Diary is by Trenna

Second Time Overseas

In this series of posts I will be revealing Trenna’s “Trip Diary” from October 1981 to April 1982. It was actually the first of two trips to the USA. The second was with me, 31 years later in 2013.

This 6 month trip to the USA happened well before I knew her.  It sounds like it was a fantastic adventure, and one I’m sure helped … Read the rest ... “The USA Trip Diary – Part 1”

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1980s Love and Marriage Snippets and Vignettes

The Earliest Days of Trenna AND Greg – Part 4

This is the fourth and final chapter in this brief love story. The first part is here.

Camping at Pemberton

By Greg

But First a Detour

As usual Trenna was ready to go when I pulled my Toyota Corolla Station Wagon into her driveway in Girrawheen. Unfortunately Girrawheen was the exact opposite direction to our final destination but I was so happy that she had agreed to go with me I couldn’t have cared less about the travel.

It … Read the rest ... “The Earliest Days of Trenna AND Greg – Part 4”

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The Earliest Days of Trenna AND Greg – Part 3

This is the third part of this tale of love. The first part is here.

A Step Backwards, and a Big Step Forward

By Greg

I Nearly Blow It

I almost stuffed the whole thing up about a week later.

Just think, the 30 best years of my life may have been completely different. This website would have never existed….

Trenna had invited me to a picnic at Walyunga National Park, and she was making all the arrangements. … Read the rest ... “The Earliest Days of Trenna AND Greg – Part 3”

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The Earliest Days of Trenna AND Greg – Part 2

Part 1 of this series is here.

Slow Progress

By Greg

Postscript to Part 1

Trenna had apparently shunned me at the end of our first date, yet she said she was fine with me calling her?

I replayed the evening over and over in my mind. It had seemed to go so well. The conversation had flowed so easily. And through pure chance I had brought her favourite wine to take to the restaurant.

Apart from the end, the … Read the rest ... “The Earliest Days of Trenna AND Greg – Part 2”